A positivity exercise to improve ALL your relationships

In Living a Life Off-Center on January 20, 2011 at 3:22 am

I am currently enjoying the newest book by Esther and Jerry Hicks (The Teachings of Abraham) called The Vortex. The Hicks’ and Abraham may be familiar to some of you especially those who watched “The Secret”. Esther and her husband have collaborated with Abraham on several books, the most famous of which is the  Law of Attraction.  For those who are hearing these names for the first time Abraham is a non physical being who sends messages of love and guidance through Esther, while her husband Jerry, transcribes and even asks questions that he feels are pertinent to all of us. Their background story is quite interesting and I have been able to watch several of their workshop videos. Once Esther “takes on” Abraham (channeling) her physiology changes, the way she moves and even the way she speaks. You may think it’s hokey or really great acting, but I’d seriously recommend you watch and form an opinion based on her “change” and most especially the messages. Check them out on

Get into a vortex of true love

Going back to the book which I am savoring, (in fact sometimes I skip reading it for a day or two just so some of the lessons are still “fresh” in my head before I embark on a new one) I found a process that will attract more desirable relationships into your life if you do it as often as possible.

Remember though that all relationships stem from a healthy, joyful relationship with SELF. If you are not yet at a point where you can accept who you are and love yourself for it, then your outside relationships will always seem to be lacking in something…fulfilment. Look first to feeling good as often as possible especially about yourself and where you are in your life RIGHT NOW. Regardless of whether you’re in a relationship with someone or you’re enjoying singleblessedness. (And yes, it is truly a blessing because if you cannot be happy alone you will not be happy even if surrounded by people!)

So, grab a pen and a notebook (don’t be lazy and type it out, there is a deeper,  more meditative energy when you actually connect thoughts to paper) and make sure it’s a notebook and pen  that you like so you can enjoy this activity even more. Sit in a quiet place everyday, mornings (preferably) or when you have some alone time and write out as many  positive aspects of the people in your life. Past and present…remember old relationships as well as those you are in now. Again, this is not limited to romantic relationships, it extends much further than that. The more positive traits you write out, the more you will feel connected to the positive traits you yourself possess. 

The Vortex states:

“You are the thinking, vibrating attractor of your experience; and the thoughts you think determine everything about the life that you live. As you turn your attention toward the positive aspects of the personalities and behaviors of others with whom you share your planet, you will train your point of attraction in the direction of only what you desire”

You can start off first with those closest to you, parents, siblings, lover, spouse, chidren. It can even extend to your household help, because these are also very important relationships the ones you engage in with those under your employment. The list can then move on to people from your past, as way back as your teachers in gradeschool, highschool. You have been in this life long enough to continue writing on a daily basis, and you will always find something new and positive about EVERYONE around you if you focus on finding it. The feelin you get once you list down all these traits of people both close to you or just ones you see in passing will help generate a vibration around you that also embodies these traits. When you infuse more positvity into your life, especially in how you view your outside world and situation, you will on an energy level invite that same vibe. Love yourself, love where you are and what you are going through and love in all aspects will overwhelm you.

See how your relationships change, especially the one you have with yourself. The more opportunities you give yourself to feel good the faster situations, people, and yes, once more the relationships that you truly desire will make their way to you. As per Abraham, this is not just a promise, it is Law.

Lawyer up then 😉

  1. Great review, Kat! I’ll pass it along to my mom…

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